Food and Friends

At 6 pm, while I was shutting down my work computer, ready to head home, my cell phone unexpectedly rings. A friend calls explaining that she just needed to talk to someone as she had a trying day. As she shares I hear her voice became less shaky. However. through all the words I could hear the words she was not uttering:

This is hard and never ending.

I am weary.

I am scared.

In a moment of inspiration and grace, I asked her “What are you doing for dinner? I am hungry! I want to treat you. Consider it an early birthday present.”

We ran through possibilities of where to eat – ruling out restaurants that are closed Monday evenings.

In a spark of inspiration, I asked her “How about Ahn and Chi?”

She resoundingly said, “Yes.”

We meet up at the restaurant and are fortunately swiftly seated in the patio. There are always line ups at this restaurant because it received a Michelin Bib Gourmand designation – an award well deserved.

The food is scrumptious – light, flavorful, a symphony of flavors dancing along our palate.

View from patio towards Main Street.
Pork and Enoki Mushroom Spring Rolls
Char-Grilled Beef Short Ribs.
Steamed Rice Sheets

We left sated: physically full on nourishing food and our soul plumped up by companionship and a long lived friendship.

Choice Words

You know those small rectangular cards that accompany a bouquet of flowers? Not a lot of space to express everything you’d like to say. This past week I’ve been wanting to order a floral bouquet for a dear friend. She is in sore need of a pick-me-up.

I’ve been mulling over what I wanted to say. She has been a friend for over three decades. She is scared. She has faced one health crisis after another. I hate being on the sidelines and seeing her suffer.

I think I’m ready to order those flowers and bring some bloom into her life. Flowers to brighten her table and words to uplift her spirit:

You are loved.

You are important.

You are cherished.